my first 48hrs of playing

assume this is the right place…
my musing on the first two days of the game.

open game - multiplayer

  • pick multiplayer - why have difficulty toggle as option, grey it out?
    why not:
  • auto populate servers,
  • auto tick locked servers: as defaults?

try and find game
join reasonable looking server.
… banned.
no reason.
time out
who knows? no reason…
rinse and repeat ad nausuem.
go back to solo…

why is it so hard to join multiplayer?

is there some kind of tip i am missing out on for a reasonable match?
ideas and feed back welcomed.

Were you trying to join some random MP games with a level 1 char?