my first 48hrs of playing

assume this is the right place…
my musing on the first two days of the game.

open game - multiplayer

  • pick multiplayer - why have difficulty toggle as option, grey it out?
    additional
    why not:
  • auto populate servers,
  • auto tick locked servers: as defaults?

try and find game
join reasonable looking server.
… banned.
no reason.
time out
ping
character.
who knows? no reason…
rinse and repeat ad nausuem.
go back to solo…

why is it so hard to join multiplayer?

is there some kind of tip i am missing out on for a reasonable match?
ideas and feed back welcomed.

Were you trying to join some random MP games with a level 1 char?