Yeah I said that stuff knowing it wouldn’t be loved. I am a guy and yeah I mentioned feminism.
It is just my opinion among others. All are valid, and I can really see both sides really. Women can wear whatever they like. Owning sexuality is great etc.
No, I never said they were too big, just felt (again, my opinion of how I feel) that eyes are drawn there.
I do not mean to be “a man policing what women wear”, I really made my comment after my wife was basically like “ugh, women can own their sexuality all they want, but in the context of video games, it is a little different…”
Basically video games, and the whole nerd culture does have a sexist problem in general (omg, I can’t believe this is my forum comment, I’m not really a SJW, I don’t even think I should have made that first comment and here I am now following up and I don’t even think I’m making my point because it’s a forum and I never feel like what I really mean is coming across) and that’s really it. Nothing about being sexual in general, more about the fact that this world (video games) kinda has this problem. But that’s a huge 'nother topic that plz don’t let anyone get into here.
It’s a complicated issue. Very nuanced with I don’t think any real right answer. Just giving this thought. I was also a lil drunk when I posted earlier so I was kind just railing. And I barely thought about it before I posted.
EDIT: I just read the post stating that it was done by a female artist. That does change it a bit for my thoughts because I was under a dumb assumption (remember: drunk) that it was a dude drawing decided by dudes which fed into my initial feel about what it sort of signified.
EDIT EDIT: I made this post to clarify where I tried to come from. Yes, I already know all the sides of the different arguments for why the costume is good or bad. I see women dressed in every which way and I’ve been to four weddings this summer, and they all make their own choices. I was just wrong when I assumed (made an ass out of me and me) that this was a man’s choice. And yes I understand the irony that I say this all as a man.
EDIT EDIT EDIT: I feel like I am in a hole and just keep digging.