Your statements need to be questioned because they are wrong. As far as “incompetence” at the game I don’t believe any of us here care much if you are or not. We all play the same game, we all understand how it works to greater and lesser degrees. You aren’t seeing anything in your game that is any different than anything the rest of us have experienced.
Basically, you are asking for some changes to the loot drops - for smart loot essentially, from what I’ve been able to decipher of your earlier posts - and Crate is never going to do that (they have made this clear numerous times over the years). Sorry, it’s just the reality.
Here is some of Crate’s prior responses on the concept of the fad known as “Smart Loot”…
Grim Dawn FAQ - Compilation of Dev Feedback
^Just go here and click the line that reads Loot tailored to your current character (aka Smart Loot)